Testimonials

I needed validation for my pain and grief and found it with this program. I had no idea how much pain I was dealing with residually beyond the immediate loss I was experiencing. I’m so thankful for the knowledge provided on myths and STERBs, identifying when they intrude on my road to recovery and conquering the pain that comes with the aftermath of peoples’ responses to my loss. I also learned how to better hear others when they are in need of compassionate listening. The Grief Solution has helped me to be a better person to myself and others, and has shown that applying the methods can actually help in other relationships in my life. I feel empowered in that I can be better prepared with the tools to deal with future loss, which is inevitable. Thank you!

I really appreciated the structure of the Grief Solution, and later working 1-on-1 with Rev. Nate. I liked having a reading assignment & homework and then the opportunity to discuss it all the following week. A big “a ha” moment for me that supported me in feeling complete with my father was the realization that I hadn’t actually given myself permission to feel what I was feeling in relationship to him. I would jump to what must have been going on for him (guessing), what he may have been feeling, etc. This understanding that I could just be with my feelings about whatever the issue was with him and that I could express that to him was huge and so healing. I stopped making excuses for him, I stopped trying to understand him and was able to be with my feelings.

I feel its a two fold process. In working the Grief Solution, I was actually emotionally worse the first few weeks due to having to face the grief. It was HARD but I knew I HAD to do this for my own sanity. Without Rev’s help in guiding me through, I am not for sure I could have completed this work. Once I wrote my goodbye letter, which was excruciating to do, and I read it out loud to the Rev., I felt a release I’ve never felt before and I have not been the same since. In a good way. I can now think of my granddaughters and smile. Yes the pain of missing them is still there, but nothing like before completing this program.

When I first lost my Mom I struggled with being angry with her and felt like our relationship had way too many hurts to be positive. But as I progressed through the program, I realized our relationship was more positive than I thought and it made me see my Mom through different eyes. Also, being able to say things to her that I could not say to her while she was here helped me express things to her better than I could have ever done so in person. But the biggest help was being able to say I forgive you for... I am so glad that I completed the program. I have even entertained the thought of becoming a counselor with the Grief Solution so that I can help others deal with loss in a healthy way.

This has brought healing and perspective that I hadn’t thought possible. My Dad died when I was 10 and there was very little sharing of grief and emotions after the funeral. Rev. Nate helped me move through my memories and emotions in a way that has brought completion to me that I didn’t realize was possible! I can now talk honestly and reflectively about my Dad - who I realized had wonderful traits that I can see in myself and my sons. This is an amazing program that I highly recommend! Thank you so much.

The Grief Solution program has provided me with the skillset to not only benefit with coping with the death of my mother, but also for coping with current relationships with people that are living. It has helped me to have closure on my grief with losing my mother. As Nate helped me work through the Relationship Graph, I began to remember things I hadn’t thought of in ages. And it helped bring the whole entire relationship with my mother into focus.

Working the Grief Solution with Rev. Nate was fantastic in teaching me what grief really means. The process taught and actually helped me process my grief in a whole new light. It showed me what it looks like to say goodbye to the relationship as it was before, while still honoring the memories and the love I have for (in this case my mom) and how to mend the painful feelings and guilt that weighed me down. The exercises and homework given are very good tools for true healing. On completion of the Grief Solution program, I definitely left feeling more at peace.

With the help of the Grief Solution program, I was able to break the process into steps that allowed me to examine the grief I was suffering following my divorce and gave me the necessary tools to start recovering from that grief. After reading many self help books on this subject I still felt that the grief I was experiencing was still interfering with my ability to move on. The Grief Solution program is the first thing that has lifted that cloud for me.